Lovely Lady : Eva Marcille Pigford

BELLO!




Eva Marcille Pigford was the winner of the third cycle of America's Next Top Model.

Shorty wanna thug: She like’ey

Women are attracted to men. Women desire men, not boys, Men! Fellas! Wasssup? I saw you checking out that gorgeous chick. You know the one you see often enough for you to say, “damn I want her, one of these days”… Oh wait maybe you think she’s going to make a move? It’s not happening brother. I mean the possibility exists but so does the possibility of you waking up tomorrow a billionaire. Plus if you keep checking her out and never say a word, odds are she’ll think your some kind of psycho stalker.

What you need to do is man up! Cause shorty right there, yeah her, the one you like; she wants a thug. Maybe not in the literal sense, like a drug dealing gunslinger, but in some sense she wants a thug. What does the concept of a thug represent? The bad boy. He takes initiative, makes bold moves, expresses himself, sees what he wants and goes after it without hesitation. What was that? Did you say something? Oh you think she won’t like you? You want an answer? Man up, and make your move! Women find that attractive. In fact ask any woman you may know if some random guy was bold enough to come up to her, and express his feeling (no pick up lines no beating around the bush), if shed give him her attention for a moment. All you need is a moment with her, just you and her. One moment without interruptions, just you and her, communicating with one another on a real level, without judgments or fears. She wants to be romanced, she wants to be swept off her feet, and she wants to know what you’re about. At least that’s what I’ve always believed and it’s never failed me, unless the girl had serious issues, which you won’t encounter that often but from time to time you’ll meet that girl that’s just an evil being from hell.




I mean come on brother, you like yourself right? You like who you are right? You believe you’re a good person, right? Then she’s going to be interested, trust me. If you answered no to the previously asked questions, then you need to work on liking and loving yourself before you go off liking and loving a woman. She doesn’t need you coming into her life feeling inadequate, and lacking self-confidence, no one needs that woman or man. I can’t stress this enough; you’re so money. You’re so f***ing money and you don’t even know it. She like’ey!

Can I get a Tom-allelujah?

If I had to pick my favorite menswear designers the list would be limited to 4 designers that are currently the creative directors of their brands. The four designers are Surajo Bello for Surajo Bello, Ralph Lauren for Ralph Lauren, Domenico Dolce & Stefano Gabbana for Dolce & Gabbana, and the uber stylish Tom Ford for Tom Ford. Spring is on the way and my Spring/Summer menswear offerings consist of floral prints mixed with solid pastels, slim silhouettes, defined shoulders, and body skimming seams. Don’t be the boring guy. Its not about impressing, because expressing yourself is way more fun and cool. Style is about expressing yourself. So express yourselves fellas, because I will. You know wonderful weather calls for wonderful colors, and Tom Ford has captured the idea, and theme for his Spring/Summer '09 collection. My favorite looks are the third and fourth ones, f***ing pimp. Tom-allelujahhhhh!

Thee Sexy woman vs. Pretty woman Part 2: Appearance

Assuming you read Part 1 to this post. I'll describe to you, what is my perceived difference between the sexy woman and the pretty woman when it comes to their appearance. Oddly enough it comes down to confidence and playing up their femininity. Barely dress does not automatically = sexy. I think its amusing, because if you think about it, of course a heterosexual guy is going to look at a woman barely dressed. It doesn’t mean he thinks she’s sexy, it doesn’t mean he likes her, he’s thinking “wow she’s wants to fuck”, unfortunately we are slaves to or natural desires, barely dressed women triggers mating desires in hetro men; it’s a fact. I mean think for a moment, when you think based on the stereotypes and images we saw of prostitutes, we never say “they look sexy” we usually say “they’re dressed trashy, skanky, smutty” and every other word with a negative connotation. So again barely dress does not automatically = sexy. The sexy woman can leave things to mystery or show more flesh and still be sexy, it’s all about her confidence and if she’s fully embraced her femininity. Oh my god, I can’t tell you how many women I’ve seen wearing dangerously little skirts or low slung tops, only to continuously tug at it in attempts to make it longer or more covering. It’s silly because the constant attempts to show less when you're wearing less reveals a personality lacking, confidence. The idea is to be comfortable and confidant in yourself, If you wear something, revealing or not, wear it with confidence. Remember this?

Ive never seen a woman execute something so revealing so confidently. Bravo Jennifer. The cloths don’t make the woman, the woman makes the cloths. Appearance is the second
step to sexy. There are many ways to project sexiness via your appearance. From personal fashion style, tanned bikin lines, lovely lips covered in lipstick or gloss, to peek a boo cleavage. Ideally you'll need to play up your natural femininity. But at the end of the day it needs total belief and confidence in yourself to actually project 100% sexiness. The lovely and sexy Italian model/actress named Monica Bellucci does it confidently.









Stay sexy ladies. High-five!

A Key Ingredient: Excitement in your life

By Chase (chasescp@gmail.com)

I'm so excited and I just can't hide it! The act of being excited is almost impossible to describe in words. Being excited is an emotion, a feeling. Being excited is an energy. Being excited alters your state of mind. Being excited causes your problems to go away, at least for that very moment. Being excited is an ingredient needed in your life.

The act of being excited can be defined as "delirious: marked by uncontrolled excitement or emotion." Most of us as humans, naturally think; rationally and logically. We always have to make "sense," of a situation, issue, problem, equation, formula, you name it. Next time you are a part of an interaction where you are attempting to solve or figure out a situation, it could be from a relationship standpoint, academic or really any topic, pay close attention.

Pay close attention to how many times a person will use words such as "but, how, why, what if, can't," and the related. This is the thinking from a logical, rational standpoint. Now picture yourself or someone being excited, about a situation, development, and ask yourself if they are using these words. Chances are they're not. Maybe after the excitement wears off and the rationalization of the situation sets in. But during that period of excitement, in that state filled with emotions, it as an orgasm of uncontrollable emotions of happiness where nothing else matters. You're straying away from thinking in a logical, rational standpoint, but acting instead through your inner most self.

Now Think. Think good. When was the last time you got excited? How long ago? What excited you? In life, every person; male and female, old and young, white and black, Canadian and Indian, all have triggers that affect your internal state. These triggers impact your emotions and moods. For example, if you are scared of clowns, the presence of a clown will trigger a state of fear within your internal state. If one of your ex-girlfriends or boyfriends wore a specific cologne/perfume, the presence of that smell will trigger a happy or sad internal state depending on how the relationship ended.

These triggers are crucial for your internal state in creating the feeling of excitement. Therefore, it is significant to discover and experience elements in your lifestyle that excite you, including the unknown. Once have done so, the result will be a trigger set off to your internal state letting yourself know: hey I'm excited now!

Your lifestyle consists of many elements that will be discussed upon in this blog, ranging from dating/relationships, fitness, music, a hobby, and lastly clothing just to name a few. Your enthusiasm and interest or dedication in improving yourself in any of these listed categories can trigger an excitement to your internal state.

Personally, people excite me. All types. I'm excited in seeing my friends. I'm excited to be introduced to a new person. I'm excited in talking to and welcoming a brand new person to my life. Furthermore, for me, my internal state triggers a feeling of excitement when I can excite another person. Merely seeing a person excited will excite me, it's contagious. Sports excite me, just the prospect of playing a game of basketball. Writing, sharing and adding value to the readers through this blog excites me. Women excite me. All of these elements excite me, and lead to me living a healthy, and more complete lifestyle.

Discover what excites you. Every so often repeat the trigger. Let the unknown excite you. Going on a date and giving a new person who may be a potential mate is exciting. Trying something for the first time usually will trigger a state of excitement, such as skydiving. Challenge yourself, excite yourself internally before you can excite others, and excite others so you can excite yourself. It is a key ingredient to your lifestyle. Be excited and don't hide it!

Introduction: Hi, I'm Chase. Nice to meet you.

By Chase (chasescp@gmail.com)

Enter my world. Enter my reality. Enter the never ending stream of thoughts constantly spiraling throughout my mind, wandering around with no direction. They don't know where they're going, but they always manage to find their way. Enter my life. A life of conscious pleasures. I now enter yours.

I'm Chase. A pleasure to meet you. What's your name? Throughout these escapades I hope to excite you, stimulate your minds, and improve your lives. All I need is once chance, one opportunity and a couple of minutes of your time. There's plenty to discuss and I'm talking and typing and reading and listening. Tell me what's on your mind, I'll be telling you what's on mine. This is my life, this is your life, and this blog is our crossroads, where we meet. Feel free to be apart of this, it's a two way street, I am more than happy to hear any of your issues, comments and concerns.

Among many topics, you'll hear me talking about relationships and dating, that's my true niche. Every facet and dynamic between the male and female and how they've come to live happily ever after, or haven't is my true passion. I love it. From studying countless of hours, amounting to days, to months, to years, on the very topics of men and women relationships. Witnessing a man and woman bond and the thought of that bond lasting forever is invigorating, I live for that very moment.

Come along for the journey, it's worth your time. I appreciate my good friend Surajo Bello in giving me the privilege to be a part of this. We're here to offer you value, value to your mind, body, and lifestyle. Accept it and do the same.

As always from now on feel free to drop me a line, comment, or concern of what's on your mind at: chasescp@gmail.com

Thee Sexy woman vs. Pretty woman Part 1: Personality

Hey what’s up? Through the course of my short but hopefully long lifetime, I’ve had the pleasure of experiencing relationships with women from diverse backgrounds. So strictly speaking from a point of experience, I think I’ve managed to grasp what I perceived as the differences between a pretty woman and sexy woman’s personality, and why most men find the latter really hard to resist. So let’s start with the pretty woman, yes she’s pleasing to look at, now on to the real stuff. So the women that were “pretty” were generally inhibited, afraid of doing things they wanted to do, quite, predictable, and didn’t really know how to play up there feminine qualities. This could’ve have been because they’ve never tried, didn’t know how to, or were afraid to. Some of these pretty women were flat out BORING. I’d go clubbing and see “pretty” women, but come on this is New York City “pretty” or attractive women aren’t rare. After a while you kind of get desensitized to it. Its like oh she’s pretty, so where are the sexy ones? Funny thing is that most of the qualities women want in their ideal man, men also want in their ideal woman.

The ideal woman is more then attractive, more then pretty, she’s fucking SEXYYYYYY. What kind of personality traits make up the sexy woman? Well based on my experiences all the sexy women I’ve came into contact with were, uninhibited, bold, spontaneous, sociable, confidant, did things they wanted to do without thinking of anyone’s opinion, played up there feminine qualities, and were just so fun to be around. Sexiness is mysterious not blatant or vulgar. Normally I think we’d all agree men are suppose to be rational and logical, and they generally are, but the sexy chick has the ability to make a man irrational. You know women are comfortable with experiencing a wide spectrum of emotions, where as guys typically are not. But the sexy woman has the ability to induce the spectrum of emotions in the guy. I guess to sum things up the sexy woman has more to offer then her obvious attractiveness where as the pretty woman only has her attractiveness to rely on, and once a guy gets used to that attractiveness and is not excited by her personality, you better believe his eyes will start to wonder in search of thee sexy chick, in search of more then just physical attractiveness. I know women feel the same way; they want more then an attractive guy, they want to be excited, they want to have fun, they want sexy. Being attractive is cool and helpful, but having an exciting personality, now that’s irreplaceable. A wonderful example of a woman that embodied sexiness was the sexy Marilyn Monroe. Nothing about her was plain or simple, not only was she attractive; she had a mysterious, alluring, bold, captivating personality, and she played up her femininity, which made her that much more alluring. So to end this post Id like to quote Ms. Monroe “Well behaved women seldom make history”.

Protect your dream its like your heart

I walk the streets of Brooklyn NY on my way to work. The piercing cold wind cuts into my skin with every walking step. My face is becoming that much more numb. Winter is really not my season, I don’t hate it I just don’t enjoy it. Normally I would be listening to music but Apple makes sucky headphones for the first generation iphones, I’ve literally gone through 5 headphones which always manage to tear at the base where it plugs into the headphone slot. Argghhhh. If you know me personally, you’ll know how my life is a huge musical. At unspecified times I’ll start singing aloud, although I’m fully aware that my vocals are less serenading and more terror invoking. If you didn’t know me personally now you do. So this particular Tuesday morning a song by Mr. Kanye West titled “Welcome to the heartbreak” (Album: 808’s & Heartbreaks), pops in my head and simultaneously the lyrics start coming out of my mouth. I tell you I cant control it, I love music. After singing the first verse I had an epiphany… I want you to imagine your life…Everything you do or plan on doing is suppose to bring you one step closer to your dream. Isn’t it? Your life is supposed to be your dream manifest. Ideally that’s what we all desire. To you, your dream is such a beautiful one you’ve fallen in love with it. You’re having an intimate relationship with your dream; it consumes your thoughts, every waking moment. Its like things happen in your life that will interfere with or hault your dreams if you allow them to. Imagine you’re in a relationship with someone. You’re attracted to that person in every way and they stimulate you in every way. Your 100% committed to the person and 100% committed to making it work. The only way the relationship will fail are if the person says they no longer feel the same way you they once did about you or if the person drastically changes and is no longer the person you fell in love with. Imagine your dream is like that. It requires 100% commitment and dedication it’s attractive/appealing to you, of course it is it’s your dream. Even better it can never leave you like a person can. A relationship with a person can be thwarted and undermined but if you’re committed you don’t let that ruin what you have. The same goes for a dream, people may try to tell you otherwise but to make your dream come true you have to be determined to make it work. But like a relationship with a person that goes south and leaves you heartbroken, when things or people attempt to mess with or thwart your dreams, and you allow them, you’re left heartbroken.


Filled with sorrow and regret because that beautiful dream you had, that wonderful relationship you had with your dream for many years, is no more. The failed relationship disappoints you because it didn’t live up to the dream you thought it would, this disappointment of a failed dream is the feeling of a broken heart. Your dream becomes part of your sub-conscious and conscious identity, and when that’s shattered your world is shattered. I would argue this may be the fundamental cause of most Americans or even westerners un-satisfaction in life. “I’ve seen it; I’ve seen it before…” (Kanye West). So live your dream. Invite people to be a part of that dream, if they refuse or try to undermine your dream, put them in there place, or remove them from your life, because they’ll infect your dream with negativity and leave you Heartbroken.

Thee Introduction: And it begins.

As you, begin to wonder, exactly who I am, you will allow yourself to become more aware and appreciate the fact that from this moment on, as you read this blog, I have become a character in your life. Your beautiful, adventure filled life. Like every unique character that has come into your life, you’ll remember, Surajo Bello. You’ll either find me interesting, informative, or entertaining, but at the end of the day I will be a character in your life you may find yourself referencing. This is a lifestyle blog dedicated to delivering entertaining, informative and helpful content to you. If you feel you have something to contribute, something you feel people my find interesting or helpful please don’t hesitate to write an article on it and send it in, and credit will be given to you as the author. This is an endeavor to offer you the most value possible. Think for a moment …don’t you think it’s possible that you and I can do such a simple thing as add value to each other’s lives. I invite you to enjoy and assist me, Surajo Bello, in offering value, and becoming an interesting character in the story of your lives. High-Five!