Thursday, February 19, 2009

Thee Sexy woman vs. Pretty woman Part 1: Personality

Hey what’s up? Through the course of my short but hopefully long lifetime, I’ve had the pleasure of experiencing relationships with women from diverse backgrounds. So strictly speaking from a point of experience, I think I’ve managed to grasp what I perceived as the differences between a pretty woman and sexy woman’s personality, and why most men find the latter really hard to resist. So let’s start with the pretty woman, yes she’s pleasing to look at, now on to the real stuff. So the women that were “pretty” were generally inhibited, afraid of doing things they wanted to do, quite, predictable, and didn’t really know how to play up there feminine qualities. This could’ve have been because they’ve never tried, didn’t know how to, or were afraid to. Some of these pretty women were flat out BORING. I’d go clubbing and see “pretty” women, but come on this is New York City “pretty” or attractive women aren’t rare. After a while you kind of get desensitized to it. Its like oh she’s pretty, so where are the sexy ones? Funny thing is that most of the qualities women want in their ideal man, men also want in their ideal woman.

The ideal woman is more then attractive, more then pretty, she’s fucking SEXYYYYYY. What kind of personality traits make up the sexy woman? Well based on my experiences all the sexy women I’ve came into contact with were, uninhibited, bold, spontaneous, sociable, confidant, did things they wanted to do without thinking of anyone’s opinion, played up there feminine qualities, and were just so fun to be around. Sexiness is mysterious not blatant or vulgar. Normally I think we’d all agree men are suppose to be rational and logical, and they generally are, but the sexy chick has the ability to make a man irrational. You know women are comfortable with experiencing a wide spectrum of emotions, where as guys typically are not. But the sexy woman has the ability to induce the spectrum of emotions in the guy. I guess to sum things up the sexy woman has more to offer then her obvious attractiveness where as the pretty woman only has her attractiveness to rely on, and once a guy gets used to that attractiveness and is not excited by her personality, you better believe his eyes will start to wonder in search of thee sexy chick, in search of more then just physical attractiveness. I know women feel the same way; they want more then an attractive guy, they want to be excited, they want to have fun, they want sexy. Being attractive is cool and helpful, but having an exciting personality, now that’s irreplaceable. A wonderful example of a woman that embodied sexiness was the sexy Marilyn Monroe. Nothing about her was plain or simple, not only was she attractive; she had a mysterious, alluring, bold, captivating personality, and she played up her femininity, which made her that much more alluring. So to end this post Id like to quote Ms. Monroe “Well behaved women seldom make history”.